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Escaping Loneliness in Marriage

End your desperation with miraculous solution

Ron's and my marriage was volatile. We could not be in the same space more than ten minutes without fighting about something. Both of us were miserable.

Why didn't we separate? We were taught that marriage was a commitment before God, and neither of us was willing to initiate an end. So after suffering a while, we grabbed some wonderful Biblical tools that brought us from desperation to love. This handbook shows you the tools and how to use them.

Barry Spilchuk, Coauthor of
A CUP of Chicken Soup for the Soul™️

This sounds like a book I need to read

A little handbook that will save my marriage? Let's go.

I can identify with that need to be desired

Excerpt from Chapter Four

Anger and fear are partners in crime. If you like drama, visit a home where anger and fear dwell side by side, intimately intertwined with each other. Oh my! What a sight. These two play off each other in a most hideous fashion.

Two people have decided to live together. One reacts to negativity by coiling up inside himself, isolated by fear. The other viciously claws at the first in hateful anger. One is paralyzed, afraid to make a move, and speechless. The other is screaming, advancing, and threatening.

The worst of it is that the greater the fear is displayed, the louder the screamer becomes. Each is reacting to the other. In our case, I was the screamer and Ron was the recluse. The more he withdrew, the angrier I got. Maybe you’re the one who withdraws, and he’s the angry force. It really doesn’t matter, because it’s the same two spirits at work.

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Excerpt from Chapter Eight

Remember that all true change in a person begins with a thought!

Pray for God’s protection over his mind.

Pray for his thoughts to be guarded.

Pray that he has the freedom to change his mind easily.

Pray that his thought life pushes him closer to God.

Pray for him to receive a phenomenal revelation of the Father’s heart of love for him.

Pray that he flows in repentance and forgiveness, that deliverance for him is continuous—like running water.

Pray that a waterfall of delivering power washes away any self-constructed walls around his heart and that such power would unbind his heart.

Remember everyone thinks he’s right in his own eyes, but only God sees from a truly righteous perspective. You can pray that your husband remembers to get God’s input regarding every decision he makes.

Not A Counselor

I have never thought of myself as a marriage counselor, nor do I to this day. I've never set up shop to counsel married couples. However, I have intentionally spent time with my God, and it's the relationship I built with Him that enabled me to learn what I needed. It was He who gave me the strength to submit to what I learned in order to save my own marriage.

The Bible has all things "that pertain unto life and godliness," and marriage certainly is one of those things. God honors marriage to the extent that He compares the great mystery described in Ephesians, chapter three to marriage. WOW. Surely God is in favor of marriage, and specifically, He's greatly in favor of yours being sweet, full of love and hope.

About the Author

Ron and Mary Gordon have been married for over 37 years. They are very thankful to be together and have countless things for which to be thankful. First and foremost is the fact that they are happily married. They don't say it's all roses, but both of them are grateful they didn't end the relationship.

Ron makes their living with tuning and repairing pianos. He loves his work, and it's even a hobby for him. Mary says that Ron will begin declaring he can't wait to get back to tuning pianos after two weeks of vacationing. On the other hand, Mary could remain hiking in the mountains or canoeing on the rivers for months at a time. In her book, Sky-Hitching to Heaven, you can read more about that. See links below.

Their family consists of three nieces and nephews each with children, and they both enjoy their eight "grand" nephews and nieces.

Mary loves what she's learned about life and handling circumstances from a godly perspective, and loves to share it with others. She runs online courses, and she is available for public speaking engagements.

Both Ron and Mary are musical. Ron has recorded three albums of his own gospel music. Mary plays flute on each album. Together they run a business of piano tuning and repair.

www.solo.to/marygordon www.gordonpianoservice.com. www.fromknot2not.com

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